Gosh I just don't know where to start, I hope this doesn't sound too garbled.
I found out yesterday that a young cousin of mine ran to live with her father, she is 6 weeks from her 16th Birthday so her mother believes that there is nothing she can do. We are all utterly terrified for her, her father is a very dangerous twisted individual.
She has had very little contact with him her entire life, when she 6 weeks old baby he attacked her mother (whilst she was hold her) with a snooker cue that was my aunties wake up call that she needed to get away from him.
But his violence and derangement didn't stop there he stalked my aunt for years,threatened her, petrol bombed her car, had her beat up. He was also very very controlling.
One strange thing he would do was to make my aunt call her self a name that was very similar to his, I've just noticed on my cousins social networking page she has been calling herself that name!
He has also attempted suicide 3 times, been violent in many other relationships and been in prison and a mental health unit.
I can't stress how dangerous this man is and all the evil things he has done, he doesn't hit someone to hurt them he hits them to kill.
What can we do legally?
Personally I want to send her a message to let her know that no matter what I am here for her, call me any time day or night if she needs help and that if she doesn't want to live with her mum then come live with me.
BUT I'm also very tempted to tell her the truth about her fathers true nature and also how much she has hurt and worried everyone. But maybe that will drive her further away?
I so terrified that I will turn on a news channel at some point to see that he has committed a murder suicide with her.
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sleepyeyes · 04/07/2009 14:38
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