Posted a week ago about a disinterested H. Well I challenged him last night and said a few home truths and basically said I'm not putting up with the status quo and I wanted him to move out.
His response was to storm out of the house and go to the pub. Rang him at 1am and he said he'd be home in 30mins. Me tossing and turning and fuming and regretting all the things I said then changing my mind until he gets home.
So he comes home at 6am and I can smell a strange smell on his clothes. I feel ill. I really feel I have done it now as in ended it.
So many things wrong with the relationship, he's a muso and a very selfish scorpio so sees nothing wrong in locking himself in studio while I deal with 2yr dd after working 4 days per week, doing all chores etc etc .
So as I said 6am he comes in. I ask where he's been & who with and I get "Shut the Fuck up" - he's drunk. So I get out of bed straight away and get ready for work and get daughter up. He's meant to look after her on Fridays 'daddy day', but today I didn't even want to talk to him so just organised extra nursery day.
Sorry this is long, but I'm in OZ and it's now nearly 11am and still haven't heard a beep from him. I've sent him texts to explain why I said what I did, i.e. he's not a proper husband, never around doesnt do family stuff. So is it over? I know I should feel relief but I really did love him once.
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ozirish · 03/07/2009 01:48
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