Hi
Im not really sure where to go or what to do so looking for some advise. Not got anyone to talk to really.
Dh been a little bit strange the last few weeks. We had DD2 7 weeks ago and he went back to work 4 weeks ago. He hasnt lifted a finger to help around the house since being back at work and for once I havent nagged or moaned - just left him to it. He doesnt do any night feeds as he normally gets up with DD1 in the morning and I dont mind as it means once DD2 back to sleep I dont have to get up straight away.
He has had the flu for a few days and instead of the normal unsympathetic wife I can normally be, I tended to his every need without moaning or sighing or anything!
Yesterday he wanted me to take him money for his lunch as he forgot. I refused as I was going to have to go and get him when he finised and I was busy with the ironing and washing. He went in a mood and after a few heated text he replied 'dont know why I bother' Asked him what he meant and didnt get a reply.
Comes in last night and on the whole was a moaning bugger until near bed time when he cheered up, felt better and fed our DD2 for the first time all week.
He comes to bed and tries to wake me up for sex. I go mental because I am so tired and hate it when he does this. He stomps off the couch to sleep where I follow for answers to why he's been a bastard the last while. His answer - 'He loves me but wakes up some days and isnt IN love with me.'
I am totally shocked and dont know what to do. He says he will always love me but doesnt know if he is in love with me. I dont know if its because of DD2 being born or what. He says it isnt anything I have done but surely I have?
Have agreed we need to talk but what do I say? I know we argue and I do nag sometimes but I really thought we were in love with each other completly. I am being naive??
L x
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