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DP's nutcase ex

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OnlyatTesco Mon 29-Jun-09 12:24:50

DP has been divorced for 2 years. He has told me that his ex is a bit of a nutter but never elaborated.
Thing is, he seems shit scared of her. He's lied to me to give her money to keep her happy (not alot, just a tenner but still) and there was other stuff. I sneaked a look on his phone one evening (I wouldn't normally, but I had a feeling he was lying to me about something important, unrelated to the ex) and I found loads of wierd messages from her. One of which was "I'm not an artist, I'm a psycopath and a chav and I'll make them all fucking pay" ??!


There were others too, in the same kind of theme. He never tells me about them or even mentions them. I can't mention them because I shouldn't have been on his phone in the first place but I'm wondering what the hell is going on.

I looked on his phone last night and he's deleted all the texts from her, but kept everyone else's on.

mrsboogie Mon 29-Jun-09 14:29:31

What's going on is that she is a nutter like he said and he doesn't see the point in burdening you with the specifics.

ridingjoker Mon 29-Jun-09 15:57:58

agree with mrsb

just hope she's not the type that will bring you lots of trouble asyour seeing her ex. does she know he has a new relationship yet?

sparklefrog Mon 29-Jun-09 17:08:24

Makes me wonder what the whole dialogue was? hmm

mrsjammi Mon 29-Jun-09 17:12:48

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