It has made everything make more sense. It is my exp to a tee. I can now stop looking for reasons as to his behaviour as I have an explanation of sorts.... he is an abuser, pure and simple, both physically and emotionally!
AND, all of the threats and actions I have been through are right there in the book, including fighting for custody!
I recommend it to everyone that is or thinks they are suffering abuse and want to make some sense of it!
Thanks AGAIN!!!! 18 months after seperation, I feel like things are clearer and can stop blaming myself and making excuses for his behaviour!
'Why does he do that? Lundy Bancroft'...... bought it on Amazon!
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Just a thankyou to whoever recommended that Lundy Bancroft book about abuse!!
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Ryn · 24/06/2009 15:04
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