I feel really childish for posting this but anyway....
As background, I moved to London/South East from Yorkshire in 1998 with work. Met and married DH and then had DD in November last year. Since having DD, I've developed a real need for friendship. I have about 4 people I consider real friends (I class this as those people who know me really well and who I could call at 3am) most of whom live at least 2 hours drive away and, as I result I don't see them that often. I have plenty of acquaintances through work etc but don't feel I've any true friends locally (work is 1.5hrs away from home). I joined the NCT before DD was born and whilst I was on maternity leave saw the ladies from my antenatal group regularly. I'm back at work now and really miss the friendship of the group. Of the five women in the group, I'd really like to stay in touch with one of the women in particular. A couple of the women meet up separately from the group and I can't help feeling a little jealous that no-one wants to meet up with me on that basis - pathetic and childish I know. I am by no means shy but I know I can come across as a little bit reserved (my FIL went so far to describe me as 'cold'!) but it really isn't intentional.
This need for friendship has really taken me by surprise as before I had DD, I was completely happy being an independent spirit.
How do you go about making friends when you're mid to late 30's?
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Sallypuss · 23/06/2009 14:07
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