Help please! Last week I was posting because my new man was acting very keen and I was feeling a bit scared by it all. Anyway a few days after that everything changed for me when he said he'd willingly back off and there was no pressure, he'd be there for me when I was ready. At that point I knew he was genuine and his behaviour was purely because he really liked me and wasn't afraid of showing it, rather than him being insecure and needy.
Anyway only a week later and we've both admitted that we've completely fallen for each other and I couldn't believe I could be so lucky...
Now today I suddenly feel absolutely terrified! It's a mixture of so many worries - worries that he'll realise he's mistaken and doesn't like me so much after all, that he'll realise I'm actually pretty boring, and most of all that my worries will make me act so insecure that I'll drive him away anyway!
Am I normal? Does anyone else go through this? If so, how do you stop these feelings spoiling everything?
I'm seeing him tomorrow but I don't know how I'm going to behave normally now. I'm actually in tears at the moment because I'm so scared!
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Fallen in love, but terrified of ruining it!
butterflies2 · 22/06/2009 23:16
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