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DH wants us to try some thing...

(47 Posts)
beastoftheeast Mon 22-Jun-09 15:42:39

Not a TROLL. Bit of a tricky one this, DH wants us to try weeing on each other, Im not keen want advice really.
Have joined under a new identity as DH sometimes looks on MN.

Alambil Mon 22-Jun-09 15:44:39

that's gross imo...

don't do it if you don't want to

candyfluff Mon 22-Jun-09 15:46:33

no way thats what the toilet is for

shootfromthehip Mon 22-Jun-09 15:48:24


whoisasking Mon 22-Jun-09 15:48:27

If you're not keen don't do it.

If you try it and he likes it, URINE too deep. {wink] sorry, sorry. <coat>

morningpaper Mon 22-Jun-09 15:48:43

you are too old for this

no one wants to know their mummy wees on daddy

fine if you are 22 and doing it to your boss

not fine once you are a mummy or sober

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 15:52:05

if you want to try it then try in the bath/shower first.

Make sure you have both had lots of water to drink so that your/his urine is as weak as possible.

Maybe if you are not keen but are will to compromise a bit / try something once perhaps suggest that you wee on him as a starting point then you can both decide if you want to take it further ?

Don't do it if you don't want to. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks about it, what you and your partner consent to doing in the privacy of your own home is nobody elses business.

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 15:53:26

(btw I am not a golden shower fan but have tried it and was neither offended nor aroused by it). There are far worse fetishes imo.

hereidrawtheline Mon 22-Jun-09 15:57:49

I do wonder why some people enjoy this. I can picture doing it but not getting anything out of it. I am really genuinely curious, I'd love someone who loved it to explain to me how it makes them feel & why it was desirable for them.

morningpaper Mon 22-Jun-09 16:00:12

fetishes are generally traceable in some sense back to early childhood events or events that occured during 'emerging sexuality' i.e. around 10ish. So wee is quite an obvious one i.e. seeing another child/adult pissing somewhere is quite a taboo-breaker and can be easily associated with sex etc.

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 16:00:12

ex was into it.

He liked it because it was taboo and very intimate also he liked the physical warmth of it.

I was like you. No problem with giving but it didn't do anything for me sexually

dittany Mon 22-Jun-09 16:02:13

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

hereidrawtheline Mon 22-Jun-09 16:02:33

thanks morningpaper & figment

I shall watch DS with interest around the age of 10 to see what he gets up to grin sorry slightly irreverent there. Seriously though I kind of get that - something happened to me at that age (a very big negative) which has stuck around so I can see the correlation.

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 16:02:39

Now poo on the other hand is one I really can't even begin to comprehend. <gak>

hereidrawtheline Mon 22-Jun-09 16:08:36

there are LOTS of things I cant begin to comprehend! LOL poo being one of them yuck. Also I had a rare look at porn on the net the other day and it was so boring. cock shot, anal shot, penetration shot, nipple clutching shot, wide open mouth shot. Just blah. Why bother? It cant even really scratch an itch can it?

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 16:10:43

lol @ itch scratching

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 16:11:50

God, I hope IT aren't tracing me. I'm at work shock

hereidrawtheline Mon 22-Jun-09 16:16:23

oh god I am going from bad to worse. I read your post and thought it said "I'm wanking" hmm I was going to say you might not want to wank at your desk! grin

I have done nothing but laugh at myself all day today I have read things wrong so many times!!! Blame DS who kept me up all night.

oh lordy. Ah well. someone whip me with a wet noodle.

FigmentOfYourImagination Mon 22-Jun-09 16:25:51

Crikey ! Deffo not wanking, am in open plan office !

hereidrawtheline Mon 22-Jun-09 16:28:55

hehe grin

well at any rate, back to the poo hmm

rookiemater Mon 22-Jun-09 16:36:28

Wasn't there an episode of Sex in the City about this once ? SJP had a boyfriend who wanted her to do this to him and it was a deal breaker for her.

At the end of the day it is obviously a turn on for some. I can't see why and if my DH announced an interest in it I don't think I would be terribly keen to indulge him. Maybe once a year on his birthday provided he did all the sheet washing afterwards.

JamesAndTheGiantBanana Mon 22-Jun-09 16:52:06

Someone should set up a dating website to match up all the single men who find peeing sexy with all the semi-incontinent single women out there. I'm sure there'd be a market for it. Like those dating sites for people with herpes. Yum.

whomovedmychocolate Mon 22-Jun-09 17:22:34

The only golden showers my husband is allowed to deposit in my lap are 24 carat grin

abedelia Mon 22-Jun-09 18:20:16

Friend of a friend once went back to the flat of a person he pulled at a club. she wanted him to lie under a glass topped coffee table while she squatted above and curled out a poo! Each to their own but I cannot think why that would be even slightly erotic.

Mind you, I also have a real thing about seeing feet on the Tube (as in most are really gnarly and make me feel sick, old ladies with long toenails particularly), so foot fetishes are also way beyond my comprehension...

HecatesTwopenceworth Mon 22-Jun-09 18:22:20

abedelia, that is so gross!!! tell me he legged it!

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