Hey,
I could really do with some outside perspective on a issue I am watching at home...
My DW has a very one sided relationship with him, it started ever since he re-married, as a teenager my DW was a handful, she admits that, but she did not get on with her StepMother at all...
it ended up with DW doing to live with her Mum, however when she left she forgot her diary, her dad found said diary, read it, and it contained very negative opinions on his new wife..
on to today, DW is desperate to have a nice relationship with her Dad, he often seems indifferent, we have a DS 15 months old, here dad lives 20 miles away, been over once!
DW was never allowed to go to her dads, as stepmother did not want to see her, this has cooled slightly, and it is icy civil at best.
whenever DW see her dad, she cries, as she really wants him to be more involved in her life.
her dad has a lot closer relationship with DW's sister...
cue this Saturday, we drove 3 hours to a party her dad had organised for the "whole" family, he spoke to DW once, did not come and see his grandson at all, we stayed for 5 hours, could see DW getting more and more upset, so I insisted we leave...
yet again, I am picking up the pieces from a father who seems to not really care, it felt like DW was invited out of duty, rather than want.
I keep saying to DW talk to him tell him how you feel, she wont as last time she did he stopped speaking to her for 2 years.
I have had enough of this asshole treating my DW like this, he needs a few home truths....
so why I need you..
I am sitting here thinking of going into my wifes email, getting his email address and letting him know exactly what I think of him, and the way he treats my DW....
there is so many more examples of him being a complete tool to my DW, but it would fill a book
I appreciate it is not nice to read such nasty things written about you and new wife, but it was 14 years ago.......
is this a bad move, my DW will be very cross, but I can not help thinking it needs saying...
please what should I do?
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Aeschylus · 22/06/2009 09:45
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