My mate started seeing her current BF when he was living with someone else. They had an affair for nearly 2 yrs before the live in girlfriend became an ex (her decision).
My friend and her now DP have been offically going out ever since (about 6 mths).
He is going on a stag do tomorrow and is staying with her tonight so brought his stuff. Anyway, she was having a snoop in his bag (apparently she does have problems trusting him- quel suprise) and she found a condom in his washbag.
They don't use condoms. It may have been from his ex (not sure about the intimacies of their relationship!) but my mate is really upset and doesn't know what to do.
I personally think that he's packed it for a reason but I am an old cynic.
Can you give me your thoughts or any ideas about what I can recommend to her? She was snooping and so feels like she can't take the higher moral ground.
Thanks in advance
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Advice please re discovery of condoms in a washbag packed for a stag do.
shootfromthehip · 19/06/2009 18:59
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