Totally disheartened again, seem to sort out one problem then another one arrives.
I know these things may seem trivial to other problems here, but would appreciate some input (again).
Yesterday me, dp, dss + friend, dp's brother and girlfriend on way back from overnight stay at concert. We all had a great time etc, I had to be back for a certain time to pick up ds from a nursery trip which meant us leaving earlier than we normally would have. Everyone knew this previously and I had offered to come back down myself and let everyone else enjoy the rest of their day, but they all said they would travel back down with me.
DP had previously questioned why I didn't get the childminder to pick up ds, but as it was his first ever trip and I hadn't been able to go or drop him off to it, that I would really like to be there when he got back. Dp didn't really get this, so we just left it as 'it's a mum thing'.
At the final leg of the journey between trains, dp's brother and girlfriend popped off to buy their son a present. About 5 mins before train was due to leave I suggested we walk up to the platform so we wouldn't miss the train. DP said, are you worried about missing the train, I said yes. So us 4 remaining walked up to train, dp texted his brother to say what we are doing and would get them on the train. DP then went in the most incredible stropp and said, I had been going on about the time since 11am. The only time I had mentioned it, was when we were all going for breakfast and I suggested somewhere near the train station as there was only an hour to the train.
He never spoke to me the way down on the train, I felt close to tears that a great trip had been ruined.
I picked up ds from trip and came home, by this time i'm angry at dp for ruining great trip, over what I think is ridiculous.
DS, then later on, playing up being naughty etc, so I send him to bed without his supper. DP hits the roof saying I am starving him and makes him toast (ds in bed, normal bedtime). I wouldn't let dp give him the toast as I said it totally undermimes me, thus last night was a barrell of laughs as well.
I can't be fucking bothered with all this pettyness anymore. So much bad feeling and im sure this is another reason for it, otherwise he really is just a petty fucking tosser?
Sorry had to just get things down, still feel really down about it all.
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lilacclaire · 19/06/2009 09:16
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