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do you have 'real life' crushes at all?

(13 Posts)
yousaidit Sat 13-Jun-09 21:36:07


sunshineandrainbow Sat 13-Jun-09 21:40:37

yep... Zac effron (or is that pretend life???)

juicychops Sat 13-Jun-09 21:41:13

i have a mini 'crush from a far' on a bloke at work. never speak to him except to say 'here you go' when i hand him an invoice to sign once a day. he's not even fantastic looking, there is just something about him and i like his accent too i find myself day dreaming to pass the time

harmless smile

juicychops Sat 13-Jun-09 21:41:43

sunshine, thats pretend!

sunshineandrainbow Sat 13-Jun-09 21:43:42

ok i have had a real life crush on a bloke where my dd goes to dancing once a week.... for the last 6 years

he is LUSH.. and i think he prob knows i feel the way i do.. I am single so i could ask him out but i never would..

OrmIrian Sat 13-Jun-09 21:44:40

Only ever in rl. I have never fallen for a sleb - only people I actually know.

juicychops Sat 13-Jun-09 21:47:15

i only had sleb crushes when i was 16-17. main ones were matthew Perry and Robert Downey Jnr

expatinscotland Sat 13-Jun-09 21:48:22

No. Only celeb crushes. People in real life, other than DH of course, are just not very attractive to me. This is a relatively small town and so you're sort of stuck with people. That makes them far less attractive, IMO.

yousaidit Sat 13-Jun-09 21:56:12

i'm havng a few recently. gah! don't know why, as i can't be arsed to drag myself out of bed in the morning i'm so tired so gawd knows why i'm ogling men!

the wierd thing is, i know when i'm getting a crush on someone, coz i start thinking 'hmm, i think he fancies me', and start imagining lingering glances... i think i am a bit odd!

expatinscotland Sat 13-Jun-09 21:57:37

Sometimes, usually around ovulation, I'll have an erotic dream featuring someone I know IRL, and it so puts me off. Eeeewwww.

There's no one fanciable around here.

Dior Sat 13-Jun-09 22:54:41

Oh, I have a massive crush on ds' barber. He and I always have a giggle and little (tiny as we are both married) flirt when ds gets his hair cut.

expatinscotland Sun 14-Jun-09 09:59:40

males here are either like a hundred years old, twelve-years-old or not my type (long, lean, sinewy, tall).

i'm glad i was happily married when i came through here .

RamblingRosa Mon 15-Jun-09 09:44:30

I've got a major crush on a man at my new work. I feel like I used to when I was much younger and would get silly girly crushes on unattainable men. He's married. I'm with DP and have beautiful little DD. Yet I'm still daydreaming about him all the time. Not especially attractive. We've just really clicked. I think it might be reciprocated. I also think I'm going a bit loopy about it and I need to put him out of my head and get on with my work Sigh.

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