I belong to a martial arts club and my DP has recentlty tried pursuading me not to go. "You look ill/tired ... we could have a BBQ instead tonight ... We could get a few drinks in and watch a movie instead...." etc etc
He has made it clear that he doesn't like some of the men that train there and insist that they fancy me.
Anyway today I had to go on a training course with the club. He tried his best to stop me going but I told him I had to. (I didn't, I just wanted to).
Anyway, whilst there, we decided our next meet-up would be in the pub for a few drinks ... make it social as well as training.
I told DP and he went in a right mood. Said he hoped it would be a weekend when my kids were with their dad as he "didn't want all 3 kids all day on his own" (one is his).
I told him if it came to it, MY kids would go to their grandmother's. So he said "well, you can't drink as you'll be driving" I told him I'd be getting a taxi ... he went on about wasting money.
Anyway, I'm going, regardless. So he's in a mood.
Anyway earlier I put the kids karate suits in the wash ready for tomorow. The wash has just finished and when I pulled them out, they were covered in FRESH mud. Smeared all over them ... nothing else in the washing machine was effected, just the karate suits. Is it far fetched to think DP may have done this whilst I was in the shower? (as that's when the cycle finished). He thought my suit was in there too but it wasn't. When I questioned him, he stuttered, looked guilty and kept going on about "how strange" etc
AIBU to be concerned about how far this may go??
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