I have never been a cat lover but I don't dislike any animal. I'm a dog lover, a guinea pig lover ... I'm just not keen on cats at all.
But I knew DP had two cats when I moved in. As I didn't actually dislike cats, I thought it would be fine.
I have been tolerant. I allow the cats to curl up on my knee and sleep etc ... but I'm really starting to DISLIKE the animals and this is so unlike me.
For a start, they're constantly begging for food. DP just gives in to them all the time which encourages them to sit staring whilst you eat and sometimes they even jump on you and try to 'steal' food ... DP just laughs at them but it really, really annoys me.
They wreck everything. They have pulled holes in two items of my clothing (one of which was special) and my son's school uniform.
They are constantly on our bed. This morning I caught one asleep ON MY PILLOW! horrible, so I stripped the beds, washed all the linen, had the bed all nice and fresh again and guess what I found when I went upstairs? the cat asleep on my fucking pillow again.
Apart from that, they kill birds and leave their corpses scattered all over the garden, they're constantly trying to attack my guinea pigs meaning we have to watch them like hawks when they're in the run outside and today we bought two lovely, baby guinea pigs. The size of hamsters ... all cute, fluffy, nervous, petrified ... I went out to check on them and the ffing cat was on the roof of the hutch trying to pull the wiring off to get inside.
I now admit, I really, really dislike the cats. They're a pain. Today I tried to close the fridge door and one of the cats wouldn't move out of it so I moved it away with my foot (I didn't kick it!) and DP gave me 'a look' as if I was being cruel not wanting the cat crawling all over our food!!
I love DP, but I dislike the cats. It sounds petty but as far as I can see, the only option is for us to move out? or am i being ridiculous?
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I REALLY dislike the cats. Should I move out?
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PhatSummer · 07/06/2009 01:13
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