Would you find it odd if a man told you he wasn't really into bjs?

[PeggyPatch]

He said it didn't really do much for him, would you find that strange?

[MaDuggar]

I've had a few men say this, so it's not all that un-common. I do still find it odd though

[Turbomouth]

erm yes

[HerBeatitudeLittleBella]

It would depend on the context.

If it was in the middle of a business meeting, I would find it extremely odd. Or if he was the funeral director burying my aged relative, for example.

[Hulababy]

No more odd than a woman saying it - and that has been the case on several Mn threads.

[BitOfFun]

Pmsl @ HerBeatitudeLittleBella

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

i've yet to meet one who isn't

[Overmydeadbody]

I was going to post a similar response to littlebella, but she got there first

I have known men who aren't really into it, so I wouldn't find it strange.

[OrmIrian]

I'd be releived.

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

mind you its probably because they haven't met me

[screamingabdab]

OrmIrian

I suppose I'd be surprised -I would have assumed that most men like them.

But we all know what happens when you assume .....

(lame joke about making an Ass of u and me)

[nikki1978]

Maybe he has just been with women who are rubbish at them . My husband says a lot of women use too much teeth which makes them bad. If you enjoy giving them maybe you should ask him if you could have a try and change his mind. I don't think it is a big deal if he just doesn't like them though. Can't see what it might signify unless he doesn't like sex either

[sayithowitis]

Can't talk from experience as Dh does enjoy them as do I and neither of us has ever slept with anyone else. However, I don't think I would find it odd. Do you find it odd when somebody doesn't enjoy certain foods/music/films/books/tv programmes etc etc? No difference IMO.

[MuppetsMuggle]

my DP doesn't like them either, but that doesn't bother me

[PeggyPatch]

He does like sex, just not bjs. I'm not going to try change his mind , just imagined that all blokes like it.

[cookielove]

when i met my partner, he didn't really like them he had never eh hem while having one, however he soon changed his mind woohoo my skills

[lostinthecitylover]

confused emoticon at women using teeth - er how exactly would that happen? genuinely puzzled

[cookielove]

an x once asked me to bite him!!!

[lostinthecitylover]

ooh I'd be worried about damaging it!!

[HecatesTwopenceworth]

I would be surprised.

Then I'd be very worried that I was crap at it.

[cookielove]

i have to say i was quite mean, once he just asked me to bite not sure why and another i was teasing him snapping my teeth really close but then i caught the skin and pulled away releasing it to late sorry if to much info

[Rosesinautumn]

An ex of mine wasn't keen either and I once had a very illuminating convo with a gay friend of mine where he told me that some guys (including himself) just find the sensation too intense to the point of discomfort. It takes all sorts I guess!

[AnyFucker]

I have never met a man who didn't like them

I honestly would think he was weird if he didn't

Same as another thread really, I can't accept that some men can't get it up unless they have a "real emotional connection"

Perhaps its the circles I move in and the experiences I have had, but men seem to be hard-wired to love BJ's and hard-ons/interest in shagging seems like a true biological urge not affected by feeling a bit "pissed off"

oh, and I know I am good at it , but apparently you have to be spectacularly awful to be described as "bad"

most men are thankful for any efforts in that dept

[lostinthecitylover]

I can understand that - the same can happen if a woman is touched clumsily - IYKWIM - it can be just too sensitive.

[warthog]

not wierd.

if man has had a circumcision late in life, for whatever reason, it can be extremely, uncomfortably sensitive to have a bj.

so what? i'd consider it a bonus!

[SolidGoldBrass]

Not in the least. But then I have met people who can only enjoy sex if one of them is dressed as a Tellytubby, so I am quite aware that everyone's turn ons are different.