Just discovered I've got a label - LAT. Living Apart Together. I'm divorced, and so is my partner. My children live with me 100%, and his live with him 50% of the time. He lives 75 miles away, and because of the 50:50 childcare split with his ex-wife, can't move from the area. It's been like this for nearly 3 years now, and I'd love for us to be together more. I've suggested that we move in with him, but he says he doesn't want to raise another family (my kids are ~10 years younger than his). Anyone else been in this situation? Am I just wasting my time on a man who can't accept me and my kids? A big, painful dilemma for me right now
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