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Please come and tell me.....,

(9 Posts)
geekgirl78 Sun 31-May-09 22:28:41

that there are still some good men out there? And that I will meet one eventually.
Have just had another 2/3 month relationship go pear-shaped on me. And subsequently found out that the guy was a serial philanderer.
I am SO tired of this. Just want to meet a nice, normal chap.Where are the good guys?

LovelyDear Sun 31-May-09 22:30:26

i've got one in my office. he's a bit uhm shy and i have no real life single friends to introduce him to, but my god he's a waste of a very good man.

inthemistsoftime Sun 31-May-09 22:40:01

hi geekgirl, just had the same thing happen to me today although he wasn't an arse in any way just had to many complicating things in his life, hey hum sad

lovelydear is he already on any websites?

aseriouslyblondemoment Mon 01-Jun-09 12:11:59

hey who knows?
do hope he doesn't put you off looking we've all met lots like this
and yes it's crap
big hugs to you x

Curiousmama Mon 01-Jun-09 12:19:26

I met one eventually. I know a lovely guy who can't meet the right person either. He isn't very tall though and that can put women off sad

If you do use dating sites try not to go for over 6' as a lot of shorter guys get left behind.

aseriouslyblondemoment Mon 01-Jun-09 12:23:56

but hey its not easy to date shorter men
tbh i can't!

Curiousmama Mon 01-Jun-09 14:42:15

Why are you 4 foot nothing? wink

geekgirl78 Mon 01-Jun-09 17:15:08

Thanks guys. Was feeling v sorry for myself yesterday...., though things are looking a little brighter today. And have managed not to call or text him - despite his insistence that I should do so. Apparently he'd hate to lose touch with me hmm.
Have never tried internet dating. Maybe I should give it a go.
Will probably give myself a bit of time to retreat and lick my wounds first, however.

Curiousmama Mon 01-Jun-09 19:10:53

Yes good idea waiting a while. Him wanting you to keep in touch is an ego thing which I'm sure you know...I've dated this type.

I met dp through a free site there are lots of those sites around. You have to watch out for the sharks though wink Lots of people, women included, wanting their egos massaged on there. Some would say going on a site that you pay for is better as those on there are most likely to be serious and not just wanting fun. Good luck for the future hope you find a nice guy smile

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