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Please come and tell me.....,

8 replies

geekgirl78 · 31/05/2009 22:28

that there are still some good men out there? And that I will meet one eventually.
Have just had another 2/3 month relationship go pear-shaped on me. And subsequently found out that the guy was a serial philanderer.
I am SO tired of this. Just want to meet a nice, normal chap.Where are the good guys?

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LovelyDear · 31/05/2009 22:30

i've got one in my office. he's a bit uhm shy and i have no real life single friends to introduce him to, but my god he's a waste of a very good man.

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inthemistsoftime · 31/05/2009 22:40

hi geekgirl, just had the same thing happen to me today although he wasn't an arse in any way just had to many complicating things in his life, hey hum

lovelydear is he already on any websites?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 01/06/2009 12:11

hey who knows?
do hope he doesn't put you off looking we've all met lots like this
and yes it's crap
big hugs to you x

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Curiousmama · 01/06/2009 12:19

I met one eventually. I know a lovely guy who can't meet the right person either. He isn't very tall though and that can put women off

If you do use dating sites try not to go for over 6' as a lot of shorter guys get left behind.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 01/06/2009 12:23

rofl
but hey its not easy to date shorter men
tbh i can't!

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Curiousmama · 01/06/2009 14:42

Why are you 4 foot nothing?

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geekgirl78 · 01/06/2009 17:15

Thanks guys. Was feeling v sorry for myself yesterday...., though things are looking a little brighter today. And have managed not to call or text him - despite his insistence that I should do so. Apparently he'd hate to lose touch with me .
Have never tried internet dating. Maybe I should give it a go.
Will probably give myself a bit of time to retreat and lick my wounds first, however.

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Curiousmama · 01/06/2009 19:10

Yes good idea waiting a while. Him wanting you to keep in touch is an ego thing which I'm sure you know...I've dated this type.

I met dp through a free site plentyoffish.com there are lots of those sites around. You have to watch out for the sharks though Lots of people, women included, wanting their egos massaged on there. Some would say going on a site that you pay for is better as those on there are most likely to be serious and not just wanting fun. Good luck for the future hope you find a nice guy

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