does anyone occasionally get woken up in the middle of the night by their dp/dh trying to 'get it in' while your asleep?

[juicychops]

my dp does this occasionally, the last time being 2 nights ago. its not something that bothers me and we've got an understanding ive basically told him it doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't expect any kind of cooperation (we are talking about 2-3am, not around 10pm!!)

does anyone else have this situation??

[ClaireDeLoon]

errr no

It really doesn't bother you? Because I'd be more than a bit pissed off. Do you mean actually entering you or just trying to wake you up with some foreplay?

[geordieminx]

NO!!

[thisisyesterday]

erm. no.

[Jojay]

No. My ex used to though.

Hence, Ex.

[llareggub]

Absolutely not. I would most definitely not be happy about that.

[Babbity]

how on earth can you give consent if you're asleep?

[flowerybeanbag]

Good lord no.

[TheBolter]

No way.

[Maveta]

hahahaha. no.

[Doodle2U]

Nope and if he tried it, he'd be a divorced DH quicker than a divorced thing having a divorced day.

Have some respect for yourself.

[thisisyesterday]

quite frankly if anyone woke me up at 2am they'd get short shrift,

[flowerybeanbag]

I would be most upset if my DH thought that was an acceptable thing to do to me, and I would also be upset that he thought it would be enjoyable for him under those circumstances as well.

[Voltaire]

Does he put rohypnol in your cocoa?

[flubdub]

Nope.

[MagNacarta]

Nope, the occassional wandering hand which is withdrawn if I don't respond maybe. I'm the least prudish person I know and I'd be very cross if dh did this.

[Paolosgirl]

No.

Honestly, this is not a normal thing for a bloke to do. Creepy and weird.

[Claire2009]

ExP used to do this.

[bumpybecky]

sort of - DH normally comes to be much later than me. He does sometimes attempt to wake me up with some foreplay. Sometimes it works, more often than not I get very stroppy and attempt to thump him one (which doesn't wake me up though).

However he always asks before I go to bed if I'd like him to try and wake me up later and he never forces the issue if I seems less than willing.

[geordieminx]

I'm not being funny but is it not sore?

If anyone tried to "slip" anything in me whilst I was asleep it would knack - and I would be sore for days.... maybe I'm just-tight--.... er well you know

[Ewe]

No, very, very odd.

DP will sometimes come home from a night out with the boys and drunkenly kiss and stroke my neck in an attempt to wake me up/turn me on, I've been known to do the same.

If he tried to put his cock in me however, I would probably cut it off. What a total utter lack of respect.

[HaventSleptForAYear]

No but have had wandering hands which could turn into more (some pretty good more actually as I'm more relaxed ).

Equally could be slapped away with a "gerroff it's 2am".

[juicychops]

Voltaire - ha ha no he doesn't... i dont think!

Yes, i mean actually going in. it really doesn't bother me in the slightest its just the way we are. it does wake me up and i know 100% if i said no he WOULD stop.

if i can be bothered then il roll over and take part, otherwise i just leave him to it.

im surprised im the only one tbh!!