Help, I'm hoping some you out there have some words of wisdom.
My dh is 12 years older than me and up until this last week or two has never presented a problem. Now however, I have him telling me that he can no longer cope with getting up during the night with our dd as he is 12 years older than me and so more tired. Yes he works hard at work but when he is at home he is more than happy to sit and watch television ALL day and put the blinkers on all day with regards to what the children are doing.
This morning i nipped out for a couple of hours and asked him to wash the breakfast dishes and take some towels out of the tumbler, when I returned home, NOTHING had been done, his excuse, dd was being grumpy, when I walked in however she was sat quite happily eating her dinner and he was sat watching tele AGAIN.
How do I work this problem out now with him saying he can no longer do it because he is older, i agree he is tired, but I am more often than not up at 5.30 and spend ALL DAY running round after two very active children and doing housework, but still have to get up during the night, as far as I am concerned she is our daughter and we should both be equal, I still think deep down he thinks that because I am a Stay At Home Mum i do nothing all day.
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PeedOff · 28/04/2003 20:39
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