Have been with my partner for 5 years and throughout that time I have gradually found out more and more lies that he has told me. Each time he has said that he only did it because he didn't want to lose me, or to protect me, blah blah. I now feel as if I cannot believe a word he says, due to a recent incident that could have been potentially very dangerous to our child. When he has lied in the past, he has done it so profusely that he has actually turned on me and said that I "am ridiculous", that I must not know him at all, and has actually stopped speaking to me for an evening over something I accused him of which I now have found out was a lie!! He also swore on his daughter's (with an ex-p) life!!!!!! I just cannot comprehend this! I ended up telling the ex-p - she did not seem shocked and said he had sworn on his mum's life to her when lying and also that he used to lie a lot with her.
He has agreed now to go for counselling, but I am just wondering if anyone else has been in similar situation and if they have ever changed?
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Anyone been in a relationship with a compulsive liar?
mymatekate · 07/05/2009 14:09
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