i have just moved in with dp and have started a new job my dd is enrolled in school and everything is perfect then..............
HE was marrried to a woman he met through a telephone chat line she tok him for every penny then ditched him for some loser she met on the net, she has a dd from a pervious relationship that dp loves to pieces, so much so that he pays £25 a week for, which by the way is not on paper and he has no rights to this child whatsoever.
she now lives with the loser and has a new baby but how i see it is if the loser wanted her so bad why cant he support her dd it winds me up so much, and to top it off if he is late paying the kid is on the phone moaning cos mum aint had the money. She was supposed to be coming to stay for half term and as dp always drives to get her and it costs us a fortune i said she would have to stay the first week end because we are able to pick her up and they can meet us half way to collect her, if not it would not be possible for her to stay i know this sounds heartless but i am pissed off with his xw taking the piss. so he spoke to xw today and she said sorry not possible we are going away (probley paid for wiv the money dp gives her) she will have to stay middle of week and he said will ask me i said well we agreed that if it wasnt when we could do it it wouldnt happen and now he said i was being unreasonable and i wasnt allowed to seee her on monday with my dd cos i would cause an arguement but i feel if he says yes he is undermining me as his dp, i know i probley sound really selfish but before i moved in i had to go home for a week when ever she stayed which wasnt nice and all cos his xw plays on the fact the kid will be ill if she dont get what she wants i have had enought she is a healthy child and the mother uses the kid sorry to rant
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aaliyahsmum · 28/04/2005 09:53
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