DP and I have been together a while now and everything is going great but I just can't seem to relax into it.
After a tough few years and I think that I am finding it hard to except that for the first time in a long time things are going well. DP and I split up a few years ago during which time I had dd and to sum it up that was the only good thing that happened in all the time we were apart.
I almost feel that I'm so frightened of it going wrong (have no reason for this) that I am blowing such minor things out of proportion (mostly jealousy), he's dealing with me questionning things very well. I worry that it's getting tedious for him and that it is going to start pushing him away from me. Has anyone else felt like this, I think I am feeling very insecure at the moment and he knows it; he reassures me of his love and commitment constantly. I know it's me as I have been feeling insecure about some friendships as well lately and I don't really understand why. I'm sure it must all be related somehow.
Just needed to get that off my chest, I've never felt this way before and so am struggling to deal with this.
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Everything is going great BUT I am destroying it
TheVillageIdiot · 17/04/2005 20:24
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