My Dp and I have lived for about 12 years in London suburbs . It was never where we wanted to be longterm, but schooling, jobs, practicality etc took precident. We always talked about moving to the country.
DS (only child) is now at university and living away from home and Dp has been actively looking for jobs in the areas we are interested in.
It is now becoming very real. Dp will have to give an answer about a job in Yorkshire by the middle of next week. He says it is my call ( I know he would go like a shot). I am suddenly full of doubt.
I have a job here(not hugely satisfying, but quite well paid but similar up north would pay substantially less)and moving up north will put many more miles between me and my aging parents and my son. I also feel guilty that if we move, DS wont have a recognised "home" to come home to during holidays.
Of course I knew all this before, but now our "dream" is become a reality I am having doubts. I will need to work if we are not going to struggle financially, and I suddenly feel that Yorkshire is very far away from those I know and care about.
Does anyone have any experience of making a similar move at a similar stage in their lives?
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