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Ineedanewname · 26/02/2009 16:16

Um. A friend just sent me an amusing .wmv file, which opened up realplayer. I then clicked file and in the list of recent downloads, amongst loads of football matches, was "Allie, Kelly and Julie's pussyfest". I am trying not to leap to conclusions about DH's late-night activities: does anybody know if there is any way this could have got on here automatically from the internet?

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stickybeaker · 26/02/2009 16:21

That happened to me - similar thing where I realised DH was looking at porn. I just asked him to delete the history so I never had to see it. That was nearly 2 years ago. I think he was a bit embarrassed TBH but sort of seemed pretty harmless. (and I never have seen any again)

But no - I don't think these things appear unless you actually download them.

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Ineedanewname · 26/02/2009 16:22

I've just had a look through my history files and it seems he has quite a habit. I'm more shaken by this than I probably should be.

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stickybeaker · 26/02/2009 18:36

Yeah I had a shock, then thought it was kinda funny. If it wasn't that it'd be mucky magazines under the bed...

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Ineedanewname · 26/02/2009 20:05

I'm not finding it funny. I feel a bit like I don't know him! All these years I never knew German big-breasted lesbians were what he wanted. Plus I though he had liberal lefty views on the exploitation of women (and he has daughters!)
However. I know I am unusual and most people think it is fine and normal. I am not so very outraged I need to have it out with him. Am sitting quiet until I can be rational and not screechy

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Ineedanewname · 27/02/2009 14:26

We had a brief chat last night and I got the impression he was glad I had found out as it's getting out of control. Need to talk properly later when it is not the middle of the night. Any experiences from anybody who has been through this would be welcome?