Have had an off off relationship with a man for 18 months now. It has been very complicated and lots has happened. He basically picks me up and puts me down when he fancies. He was married and is currently waiting for his decree absolute. He didnt leave his wife for me adn we didnt start getting togehter till after they separated. BAsically in the last 3 months i have had lots of late night visits from him for one thing only. Most of the time he is gone within an hour without so much as a hug afterwards. he has now gone quiet and although we havent fallen out he isnt coming round or getting in touch anymore. He told me yesterday that he hadnt been free for a long time and needed to be free. I told him to tell me to walk away because I am weak and I need to be told. He wont tell me to walk away and I feel like i am being left hanging for when he decides he has had enough 'free' time. He has been an absolute pig at times and although he has had a difficult time it still isnt right. I am worried that all the upset is affecting my dd. I am on ADs and i am sure that this mess is the main reason i am feeling like this. My xp had my dd overnight last night and i ended up on my own because I didnt plan anything incase he wanted to see me. WHat do I do?
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