...and I know its terribly wrong. But I am incredibly unhappy in my marriage. My husband is like a cross between an old man and a teenager and he seems to get a kick out of putting me down and criticising me.
Am a regular poster and have changed my name for obvious reasons. I have young children, one has special needs. Sometimes I think my life is so shit, just cleaning, looking after the kids, washing, blahhhh, blahhhh, blahhhh...
husband gives me little help, and always criticises me. Maybe it makes him feel better or something. He is becoming a control freak and has cut up all my cards, so I have to ask him for pocket money.
Anyway I met someone recently on a course. Very, very attractive. WE have been having an affair for 2 months. I am not in love with him but he is very sweet and kind and the sex is amazing. But he has told me he really likes me but has admitted he doesnt really like kids. I'm not wanting a husband-replacer but obviously liking kids would be preferable!
Husband has alos told me that if I find someone else after we split up (both know its inevitable) then he will no longer see the kids. He says he doesnt want to confuse them. I think its a threat.
Don't really know what I am trying to say, but some feedback on the situation would be good. Thanks.
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I am having an affair
doingthewrongthing · 05/04/2005 15:12
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