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what do these words mean.....??????????

(14 Posts)
ineeedtostopworrying Sun 25-Jan-09 11:39:22

he said ' when i am with you i feel nervous'
I said why do you feel nervous?
he said like the feeling you have before you kiss someone for the very first time.....

is this a good feeling for someone to have when they are with you or will this feeling scare him?

we have kissed and a little more but not slept together...

candyfluff Sun 25-Jan-09 11:41:25

its probably just anticipation of whats to come
when you have finally done the deed it will pass
bless him

WinkyWinkola Sun 25-Jan-09 11:42:00

It's good. Great. He feels anticipation and excitement just like a teenager. He's worried he won't impress you.

PlumBumMum Sun 25-Jan-09 11:44:36

I think thats a brilliant sign, means he really likes get butterflies in his stomach

He just hasn't known how to word it

SheWillBeLoved Sun 25-Jan-09 12:48:59

That's so lovely grr @ DP for never saying that! grin

warthog Sun 25-Jan-09 13:05:14


aseriouslyblondemoment Sun 25-Jan-09 13:09:48

Ah bless!
maybe he's still a virgin lol!blush

ineeedtostopworrying Mon 26-Jan-09 17:32:04

thanks for the input

Virgin grin

bubblagirl Mon 26-Jan-09 17:44:14

thats an amazing feeling

PoloPlayingMummy Mon 26-Jan-09 18:01:09

ooh I remember that feeling years ago when i first met now DH- it's fab!!

ineeedtostopworrying Mon 26-Jan-09 18:02:04

maybe he is worried i am going to pounce on him ha ha smile

I dont know still early days and he is not sure he wants a big full on relationship with anyone at the mo..

But i am guessing at least this feeling nervous is a good start????? Maybe? and he has also commented on the major chemistry between us wink

Zaftig Mon 26-Jan-09 18:04:00

Ohh I like that feeling. I miss it.

PlumBumMum Mon 26-Jan-09 18:06:14

Change your name to worry when Ive nothing to worry about

Sounds like he really likes you but is afraid cos he didn't think he was ready for a big relationship right now

ineeedtostopworrying Mon 26-Jan-09 20:42:21

PBM- thankyou-- love your name to...

Today i have decided to go more with the flow and to really try to stop worrying...
I think what you say is true about him being afraid... And i can only hope he makes the right choice as i feel feelings like this only come along a few times in a life time...

I have been hurt a few times as has he and i am also a bit worried about getting into a relationship again after 3.5 years single and liking being single!!! but i feel it is worth taking a chance on and hope he does to smile

What will be....

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