I didn't mean to, now i am scared to have an orgasm again. Everytime i come close i can feel a small amount of urine dribbling out and stop myself. Sorry for the intimate details but i am worried. Does this happen to anyone else and what can i do to prevent it. Do i need my bladder tightened?
Oh he is understanding, told me not to worry, said he was flattered he had taken my wee games virginity. I just cant have sex anymore as i know it will happen again, need to do something to stop it, before we invest in plastic sheeting.
Can't you just make sure you go to the toilet before sex?? I know that orgasm feel more intense if you have a fuill bladder. My pelvic floor is a bit dodgy sometimes!! DH and I only ever have sex in bed at night.... and I always emoty my bladder before bed. Just shows you how spontaneous we are eh??
Would you be too embarrassed to see your GP about this? It sounds like your pelvic floor is a bit knackered (join the club) and maybe your GP can suggest things to help. Stopping having sex is going to cause more long term problems with your dh than weeing on him..and you worrying about it is going to stop you getting any enjoyment out of it yourself. Your dh sounds very sweet - bite the bullet and see your GP: they will have heard it all before, guaranteed.