Typical story , been married for over 10 years and Mil has made my life a misery from day one. Dh has never really been very good at standing up to her and this has contributed to some serious problems between us.
Over the years she has insulted me on a regular basis , spoilt every special day and blatently encouraged Dh to not marry me , and then to divorce me.
About 6 months ago Dh moved out , and we used that time to attend counselling and sort things out. There was never going to be a divorce , it was to give us both space.
We will be moving back in together very soon , and yes , youve guessed it Mil is threatening to cut Dh out of her will should he even consider it.
The thing is , she has been openly nasty about me in front of my children and quite frankly i dont want them round her for any reason.
She would happily see my children grow up without a father to satisfy her own warped agenda and i find this very hurtfull.
In the past Dh has taken the children to see her alone , i no longer feel comfortable with this , but i dont want things to be any harder for Dh and ideally id like the children to have a good relationship with their grandparents.
I havent seen Inlaws for a few years now , im not sure whether it would be selfish to keep the children away from her ?
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Mil threatening hubby with will unless we divorce
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inlawoutlaw · 23/12/2008 01:15
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