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marriage after an affair?? can it be done?

(6 Posts)
ambercat Sun 21-Dec-08 20:17:04

I'm so confused, i really love him still but think he has only come back to me because ow dumped him.

He says he sees his future with me and the children but i don't think he loves me. I get the impression he's trying so hard but not quite making it.

There is still alot of talking to be done but i don't think he wants to, am ringing relate tomorrow.

Sorry not making much sense, has anyone made things work after having their trust destroyed? Can the love he felt for me ever come back or am i just wasting my time?

macdoodle Sun 21-Dec-08 21:39:27

I couldnt
Maturer and HW should be along soon with good outcome stories
For me it was too many lies too much destroyed I did try FWIW for 2 years

slavetomykids Sun 21-Dec-08 21:52:56

I wsrote a long and personal post and deleted it.
Crux is, if he loves you ... yes, if he doesn't and you do, then its liking living with a sibling who tolerates you. hard, and very painful

BellsCarolsNSleighs Sun 21-Dec-08 21:57:57

tried and still trying just over 2 years on.. still not happy tbh

ambercat Sun 21-Dec-08 22:49:39

slavetomykids, think you have it sad

he wants to love me for the sake of our children but i can tell he doesn't.

don't know what to do

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Sun 21-Dec-08 22:52:53

then walk away ambercat, as painful as it is

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