I've put this in the relationship section as I think it's really about the relationship I have with alcohol.
I drink for a couple of reasons:
For fun when I'm socialising
For relaxation sitting watching TV with DH...
These reasons are fine to me, but my third reason is what worries me.
I drink to forget. Nothing specific as such, just sometimes I drink when I've had arguments with DH or my Mother (more and more these days). I don't get slaughtered, but I drink just enough to make me either forget about my troubles or gloss over them!
I don't drink every night, but throughout my life I have used alcohol as a numbing agent.... hiding from things. When I was a 17 year old I was hiding from a broken heart. As a student I was hiding from the reality of my debt.... and now??? The reality of an unhappy marriage. We are working at it and want to make it work, but as we wait for marriage counselling to get back to us with regular appointments I find myself sitting at this PC more and more evenings with a bottle of wine.
I'm not an alcoholic.... and this thread isn't really about that. I just wondered how many people out there could admit that sometimes they drink to forget... for a while. Am I in the minority? Do most people just drink a few glasses of wine to unwind or just to socialise with friends?
Or is drinking to unwind just another way of using alcohol to forget about the stresses in life??
Just thinking. Feel free to ignore... I'm a bit tipsy!
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Why do YOU drink??
Toothache · 23/03/2005 22:15
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