Recently we've got an au pair so that I could have a rest - things were getting on top of me.
Within a couple of weeks, I landed some freelance work and dh is caring for ds whilst I work at home in the office.
He's really into cooking, and wants to make ds home cooked food - but the things that are really important (to me), keep being dismissed - like eating and sleeping routine.
Today, I left the computer to get some tea - the kitchen was a complete state, with ds whinging in high chair with finger food. The spoon food was totally untouched, as dh had tried to feed too early, because it fits in with his plans to go out for a walk in sunshine.
DS is now left without a proper lunch, I had to clean the kitchen (au pair at school), dishwasher broken by the way - and he is about to take him for a walk that isn't necessary. we also need to pack for the weekend - so I guess I'll do that too! When I raised the subject, dh said he is in pain - no mention earlier when chatting lightly!
Aghhh....
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goreousgirl · 18/03/2005 12:25
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