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I had a little cry and I wanted to tell someone

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RagingHormone Wed 29-Oct-08 21:51:00

We're both trying to get our bodies ready for our wedding in a few months. We've got a 5 month old and I must have put on 5 stone through pregnancy and went up to a 20. Now I'm a size 14 and working hard. I want to be back to a 10 for the weddin g but it won't happen. Anyway he's been v encouraging about my diet so I started thinking he was embarressed of me etc.

We're getting exercise stuff so that he can bulk up and I can slim down, but tonight I said what if he bulks up, feels great about himself and starts thinking yuck about me. And he said that he's only been encouraging me as he wants me to be happy with myself and he loves me for who I am and thiks I'm stunning and he gave me a kiss and a cuddle.

And I waited until he went out the room and had a little girly cry because I thought it was so lovely.

BATtillaTheSEVEREDHanD Wed 29-Oct-08 21:52:48

That's lovely RH. What a fantastic thing for him to say.

LadyLaGore Wed 29-Oct-08 21:55:39

good for him. thats what loving partners are supposed to say. and mean too!

LittleMonkeysMummy Wed 29-Oct-08 21:59:13

Aawww...Can you get him to tell my DH that's what you're supposed to do?

RagingHormone Wed 29-Oct-08 21:59:53

You hear about so many mean men who've done awful things on here that you end up thinking they're all the same and then they go and surprise you.

LadyBabo Wed 29-Oct-08 22:00:41

IF you are still a size 14 when you get married - get a fab dress that shows off your wonderful cleavage! That's what I miss most about being a size 14 - am a 10 now but I miss my busters!


CandleQueen Wed 29-Oct-08 22:05:15

That's lovely! He's a keeper!

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