What should I say to an ex-friend if she turns up at my front door this week (half-term, DCs etc) unexpectedly? I do not want to see her, haven't answered her last text.
I am/was annoyed as I realised she had been talking about me to mutual friends in a patronising way/painting an untrue picture of me. I know it sounds silly. We were very close over the past three years but more recently, say 4 months ago I started to notice in our conversations some snidey comments directed towards me, very subtle but clever put-downs. We have supported each other over relationship break-ups and getting back on track in our lives which has been really helpful for me. I have moved on alot after my break-up, what I mean is that I regained self-esteem (that was all I wanted for now). I don't have another DP, and I think this bothers her, she has either had someone in her sights or been on and off with her husband over the past three years, that is totally up to her and we talked all the time about relationships etc. But I was well and a few months ago when she began dropping these put-downs into our chats. She knows what she was doing, (we have talked so much about abuse) I don't think I need to explain to her? What would you say to her if she called on you unexpectedly?
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My friend changed now I don't want to see her
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N8sofie · 27/10/2008 19:10
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