Okay - it's 18.53 nd I have drunk 3/4 of a bottle of white wine.
Split up with DH six months ago because of his add9iction to phone chat lines. Have spent the last 6 months with my Mum and Dad sleeping wityh DS in bunk beds. Am about to move into a 3 bed house privately rented (nearly £700 a month). So am here - in my old house - packing stuff up.
10 days ago DH swore to me he had conquered his problem - so what do I find? He owes God knows what on his phone bills - same number as always.
He has a CCJ for non-payment of his water bill and in the post box was a summons for non-payment of council tax!
DH is due back here about 10pm with DS.
Any suggestions on how I should start the conversation?
Am about to drink more wine.
Will hold my tongue if DS is around but once he isn't it's open season.
You are not a bitter cow. You are disappointed. Now you know the truth, and plan your future accordingly. Walk out, and dont look back, and DONT have words. Not now that you are hurting, drunk, and have just made the discovery.
I know. I could not bear being away from my sons. When I gave birth to ds2 was my first time ever away from ds1, it literally hurt to spend nearly a week away from him. But your ds has you. A mum who cares and loves him very much.