LO is 4 months old and I look after her 24/7 and have done since day 1, she wakes 3 times a night for feeding. He snores away in the spare room getting an uninterrupted night's sleep but usually moans how knackered he is because I'm not looking after him. A few times he's started arguments going on about "what about my needs?" shouting and waking LO and stopping me from getting any shuteye. He says that he's looked it up on the internet and if things aren't back to normal within 2 months then there's something wrong!
Well, even if I wasn't so knackered a lot of the time, I hardly feel like jumping on him when he makes out that I'm abnormal! He's away for work for almost half the time and I'm so much more relaxed and life is definitely easier without him - no crisps and crumbs on the floor, crisp packets around (yes, around) the bin, dirty glasses and cups left about, dirty socks scrunched up on the floor... slob qualities aren't really a turn on for me.
Yes there have been plenty of words, apologies and promises but bull is his middle name.
Unrestrained thoughts please?
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He throws a strop if I go to bed at 10pm after I've fed and settled the baby
jaijay · 14/10/2008 22:11
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