I am an only child and 32. Spent every Christmas with my mum since I was little. My dad died last year (they were divorced but still good friends).
DH's mum is in the middle of a divorce and it is not clear what her Christmas plans are.
Both mums would probably want to spend Christmas with us, although DH's mum has 2 other kids she could potentially spend it with.
DH and I are expecting DC number 2 in March, and also celebrating 10 years together. We figure it will be a while before we can go away again, and haven't been on hol since Easter 2007. So we thought of just going away together with DS1 over Christmas for a holiday instead of the usual trailing back to the UK to get cold! (we live abroad).
The only alternative is that we have BOTH mums to stay with us (small flat), but they don't get on that well, or we hire a holiday villa and invite them to it.
Is it selfish to just go away for once or should we be dutiful? any opinions welcome!
We live in Euro
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opinions please: are we being selfish to go off on holiday over Christmas?
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Gemzooks · 14/10/2008 11:00
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