My dh makes me want to bang my head against a brick wall sometimes. He can be so rude and doesn't even know he's doing it. It's with family both mine and his. When he's chatting to friends he's absolutely fine.
The thing that has set me off on this rant is this.......
Dm and my Step-dad looked after dd2 this morning. We dropped her off and dh could just about bring himself to say hello to my parents. We went off and returned later to pick dd up. As soon as we walked in the door dh said to dd "come on let's go". He can never bring himself to stay any longer than 10 minutes and never speaks, only to say a quick hello or goodbye, sometimes he doesn't even say that. It's like this every time he goes there.
I have argued with him so many times and he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. Dm notices it all the time as I can see the look on her face. She never says anything for my sake as she knows I would get upset if they fell out.
Dh is the same with his family he doesn't have time for any of them. I'm always having to nag at him to phone his dm but he just says what's the point I don't have anything to say. He has two sisters and one brother who have all in the past caused a few problems in the family but he doesn't bother with them at all.
I find it so hard to understand as I am close to my family.
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Dh can be so rude - but denies it
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SPARKLER1 · 04/03/2005 14:38
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