Complicated but fell out with a friend about a year ago as we moved away and two friends were really mean about me moving and a bit jealous I think.
Made nasty comments and after me going to visit one on her birthday I asked them if they would come up to lunch at mine - got replies of 'God not trekking all the way up there' and 'You are the one that moved' - was at a really low point finding it hard to settle in and it really hit me hard their nasty comments - they did make more horrid ones but in that vein.
Anyway one had split with husband about a year before and he always swore there was no one else - wasn't entirely his fault as far as I could see their relationship was one sided with her calling the shots and him not having much of any sort of life outside of the direct family unit - but that is a different matter.
Anyway haven't spoken to them since but DH saw said hussband on the train last week and he was with another woman - he went to great pains to try and act as though they were not together and although he did acknowledge DH he almost ran off the train - which makes me thinkt hat he is still saying he didn;t leave her for another woman IYKWIM.
Anyway half of me thinks keep out of it and half of me thinks maybe I should contact her and tell her - part of me misses her but part of me thinks leave it - it is none of my business and she will find out sooner or later.
So what would you great mumsnetters do?
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WOuld you contact old friend and tell her her husband is seeing someone else after they spplit and you haven't seen her for a year?
MadameCastafiore · 08/10/2008 14:03
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