i really need some advise, my dh and i split up last monday, for a long time he has been an angry man, who acts like a 2 year old having a tantrum. He loves my dd but doesnt get on with her. she isnt perfect but what kid is. she doesnt listen, can be rude, and is lazy, but he cant handle it, he calls her a little bastard, tells her me and him argue cos of her, tells her if we split up it will be her fault, blames and moans at her for everything. its been goin on for a year or so now, we argue about her all the time, then things are ok, then will have a big row etc etc etc. Anyway, id had enough and told him to leave, which he finally did. i was desparte to come home saying he loved me and missed everything including dd, i asked him to have anger management and will see a marriage counceller and work it out together, but i dont want him home yet. this has really affected my ds, dd and his dd and im kinda relaxed now his not here, i do love him very much but i dont want him home until we have sorted this out, he is constanley going on at me, laking me feel gulity cos he isnt happy and wants to come home, when i tell him im not ready he gets all moody and nasty and makes me feel gulity, his said he keeps getting nose bleeds and is being sick. ive told him a few weeks and we will be back together but he isnt happy with that, he wants it now, we are going out for dinner tomorrow night, and im really looking forward to it, but i know his going to keep going on at me. i know he loves us and wants to change and is trying but im just not ready, am i being out of order, shall i just let him back. he said we need to sort it out together at home. i said what would you have said if i told you it was over for good, he said he would have jumped by now. what do i do?? ( dd is almost 10)
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