Husband ignores me so much, pretending he doesn't hear me all the time, just feel generally disrespected and it's really getting to me. He says things like "you're a big fucking soft kid" and "who do you think you are?" when I have a go at him about it. Been together almost 20 years, lots of ups and downs but feel like as I'm approaching 40 it's too much. Arguing in front of kids and I know this isn't good. He has lots of good points but this is getting me down so much now. He never takes me out but goes out with friends at least twice a week, he says I should just go out by myself, he's right, I should (low self esteem?), how weak do I sound when I write it all down, I'm not but bloody hell, when you see it written down. Thanks for listening. Feel better just for writing it all down.
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