Sometimes he's ghastly to me, sometimes sweetness & light....most of the time utterly indifferent although always doting on the concept of his son in my tummy. which is good, I guess...but makes me feel so sad.
He's now "with" the teenager he left me for, although he refuses to admit this publicly (he seems to think I could use it against him in court as shes so young).
I'm away for a week, & he's texted asking if he can take me out for dinner. Just to be civil & chat apparantly.
My head feels utterly screwed up He never took me anywhere at all when we were together!!!!
What Attila and OMDB say - he is after playing mind games. Don't go along with it. Tell him any conversations you need to have can be conducted over the phone or via email (although be prepared for him to ramp his campaign of manipulation up a notch).
Think you need to keep away from this man as much as possible to be honest and keep contact to an absolute minimum.
He will be playing his 'OW' in similar fashion as well I suspect.
I reckon he hadn't heard from her for a couple of days so decided to text me...he texted yesterday saying he couldn't do dinner afterall cos no money (he went out with her n her mates the nite before!), but if I wanted I could pop round on Weds when he's got a mate staying over....I politely declined :p It's so typical 'him', always shifting the boundaries - whilst he was with me he used the OW as his emotional buffer whenever things got tough n I aint having him do that to me now
THEN he got drunk last nite, kept textin me about how he was watchin some geeky sci-fi series (which I think OW had got him into), & about how I was better off without him anyway because he's a saddo, but he hopes our baby understands????
God he sounds like an egotistical nob job, definatley playing mind games with you, tell him to feck off, better still, ignore him completely, sit back and watch him try every trick in the book to get your attention, then self combust when he realsies he cant have you at the click of his fingers.