Never thought I would be starting an "Am I being unreasonable" thread but here goes. Just let me rant!
Tonight my DH was getting ready to go out to the gym, I was playing piano and the kids were playing in their rooms. DH comes down the stairs "Are you not going to get dinner on for the kids", me "yeah, in a minute" (as if they would let me forget to feed them. Next comment "What's happened with the washing, the dirty washing is all over the floor up there and it's been like that for weeks" (me thinks his favourite posing clothes for the gym are in the wash and that is the problem) to which I blew up (overreaction totally) and proceeded to rant about how I hold told him a couple of weeks ago that I was behind with the washing and I just couldn't get a handle on it etc and that after almost 10 years of marriage and clean, socks, knickers, ironed shirts etc all magically finding their way into the wardrobe and never as much as a comment why suddenly start talking about it now that I have fallen behind. He said "I was only just saying, there is loads of washing and the washing lines outside are empty and the drying racks inside are virtually empty, I wondered what was happening" cue another tantrum "we've had builders here all winter so I've had no outside drying lines, the minute you put them back up it snows!" (I of course had washing out the day it snowed). He said I was overreacting and how would it be if I asked about the state of our finances (his dept) and he blew up at me like that to which I said I would have listened to him a couple of weeks before telling me about the problem and would have been understanding and possibly helpful.
Now he has gone out and I've made my way round the house, he has finished all the milk and no doubt has no intention of buying any more, finished the bread without taking a new loaf out the freezer, left the bathroom soaking wet (wetroom) despite me having asked him the other week if the bathroom is really bad could he dry up the floor with a towel (from the washing basket) and he has been all over the house in shoes that have had muck stuck in the tread, he has also walked through the wet in the bathroom creating a lovely muddy mess in a couple of places.
I have an ear infection (not to painful thankfully), DS2 hasn't been well, I have also been ironing today and taken DS1 to his swimming lesson.
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