I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year & he has been separated from his ex wife for 2.5 years. They are not yet divorced (nor am I, although I have started the ball rolling) & she got all emotional with him on the phone a few months back because she still has feelings for him etc. Think this was because she found out he was with me. He assures me he is happy with me & wouldn't want her back, but I did feel unsettled by her getting like this.
She has sent him a text saying she wants to come round & pick up the last of her bits in a couple of weeks...no big deal really, but my head is running away with me. Why after all this time does she want to come & pick things up? Surely you would do this quite soon after moving out!
I keep thinking that she just wants an excuse to go round to see him & will get all heavy talking with him again. I wouldn't have thought twice about it before she got all emotional, but now feel uneasy about her being alone in the house with him. Silly silly I know - she is picking up some stuff & he is with me - no big deal at all! Why has my silly head gone into overdrive here? Talk some sense into me!!
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Pinkchampagne · 25/09/2008 21:02
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