To try and give you a quick lowdown, my inlaws have never liked me for reasons unknown, but I've always tried to get on with them for DH's sake and in the hope that one day they might warm to me, that was until fil stormed round to our house calling me names, saying not very nice things about my dc's, shouting and pointing his finger at me and told me he and mil didn't like me. Fil refused to aplogise to me for his behaviour so we didn't have much to do with them until our wedding day 5 months later where they ignored me all day, fil refused to stand anywhere near me to have photo's taken, they both refused to smile in any photo that I was in with them and generally made it clear to all our other guests that they weren't happy that we were getting married.
A couple of weeks after our wedding mil's father died and she wouldn't even acknowledge DH at the funeral because I was there with him. Dh hasn't had anything to do with them since then. Meanwhile he is being put on a serious guilt trip by his grandparents about the situation and in the end he wrote them a letter stating why he does not want anything to do with his parents and that he wants an apology from them. They still refuse.
We occasionally bump into his parents and they will ignore me if I'm on my own but pass the time of day with me if DH is there.
Last week it was our 1st wedding anniversary and in our local paper, under the announcements column was a 'Happy 1st Wedding Anniversary' from inlaws!!!! We find this most bizarre. Everytime we speak to someone who was at our wedding they say how hypocritical inlaws are to do this considering how they acted at our wedding. Dh and I feel it's a case of too little too late especially when they still refuse to apologise!!
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mampam · 24/09/2008 15:05
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