I think we're just going thru his usual Feb depression - he suffers from SAD - but he won't do anything about it.
It's blown up today cos we told ds he could go swimming this weekend (he hasn't been able to go for weeks becos of an ear infection), and today dh doesn't feel like taking him, saying it's because ds was naughty yesterday (I know it's just that dh feels bl**dy idle). DS has been really good this morning, helped with laundry, even put some toys away.
So dh and I have had a blazing row, and I've had to FORCE him to take ds swimming (it's one of the things I can't do on my own, can't get in and out of the pool without help, otherwise I'd have gone instead).
During the row I mentioned the fact that he's so miserable all the time (he hates his new job, takes it out on me). I said about the holiday I'm trying to get him interested in (Not till sept.). He's told me to book for me and ds, and leave him at home.
Apparently I've only got my new job becos it proves he can't provide for us (his words), It's my fault ds is so badly behaved (too many rewards for good behaviour, not enough punishment for badness) and I've been a pain to live with for the last 3 months (not what he said when he was all over me last weekend).
Sorry, just unloading I guess. But why did he WANT to disappoint ds so much over swimming. Selfish G*t.
What should I do when they get back?
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Really p*ssed off with DH - and very sad
Easy · 27/02/2005 13:39
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