He's always been one to keep himself to himself. He finds small talk etc impossible. I find it a struggle too, but I'm concerned about it (whereas he isn't) and when people invite us anywhere he always just stone walls it. If he does come he's silent to the point of making people uncomfortable.
He has no real friends any more (despite the fact that people love him and try and contact him he just thinks its 'not worth it')
People everywhere he has ever worked like him but say he's hard to get to know....
He's actually side splittingly funny and everyone who has been forced to get to know him (through work or uni) etc says he's fabulous fun, but when he leaves somewhere he just cuts all ties...
I pretty much know there is nothing I can do but has anyone any ideas? He's not going to make an effort because I ask him to - its just not in him. I spoke to someone in his last work that said it took 18 months for them to realise how great he is. Thats not really good enough for a dinner party
We've moved and I'm meeting new mums - people are starting to ask us to parties and barbeques etc and I either have to go on my own or not go. Now the winter is coming its getting much more couply (as opposed to something I could take the kids to in the summer).
If people ask the pair of us, is it ok to go on your own?
He's brilliant and I adore him by the way.
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My DH wont socialise
optrex · 23/09/2008 10:43
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