Im SO cross with D at the moment, thought perhaps venting my frustrations and annoyance on here might help let off some steam and calm me down?????
Hes been out nearly every night this week. Not a massive problem. He doesnt go out in the week that much so now and then its cool(ish). Monday he had some computer training thing at work and went for a drink after so got in late. Tuesday he had a beer after work with some of his best mates locally. Wednesday some more computer training and a few beers after. Thursday he came home, sat on the computer until dinner then fell asleep on the sofa. Friday he worked late and . , yes you got it went for a few beers after work. Meanwhile, cut to on a Friday night at home and Im down to my last glass of wine, oh shit. Text him, about10ish to say that the wine had run out he texts back hell be home soon with more wine; he gets in at midnight.
Okay no massive deal, bit of a shitty week, for me. Im a bit pissed off, and frankly a bit envious that its ok for him to call and say Ill be home late tonight, thats a luxury Ill never have again as its me that has the car and picks up DD, anyway ..
Now to today ..
He gets up and informs me hes going for a haircut, which he goes into central London for. He leaves here about 10.30ish.
I get a mate over and we have a great time with DD doing hand painting and playing.
My mate has to e somewhere at 3 and we decide that Ill go with her, help out and I have a few things of my own I can be doing. So ring D at about 1 and ASK him will he be back by 2.30/2.45 as I want to go out and any later will be too late. Oh yes not a problem hes leaving in about half an hour.
So 2.30 comes and goes, no sign. I get him on his phone .hes just leaving now.
I went mad. The last straw and all that. Selfish, selfish, selfish.
Just had enough.
Oh and as he leaves this morning he says shall I get you something nice?
Hes back now, did he get me something nice, did he hell. Did he buy himself loads of new vinyl and god knows what, of course he did.
Hes so selfish, so thoughtless, its all about him, all the time.
Yes hes sorry, yes hes trying to be all nice now but he can fuck off.
Right, so am I calmer? Hmmmmmmm, NO Im not.
I want to go into the garden and scream until it hurts!
Thanks for making me smile.
I told him to get out of my sight, funnily enough he did as he was told! He's in his studio listening to his new records. Have decided he'll be buying me a curry tonight, sod the diet on a Saturday and I'll be getting as smashed as possible tonight with full benefits of a lay in tomorrow while he goes, and takes L to buy ingrediants for a roast that he'll be cooking me.
I'm out straight from work on tuesday and intend to come home and be an annoying drunk!
TC I sympathise SOOOOOO much.......when i first read your post i thought that my DH had gone to live in your house. I've had a few weeks like this too - out drinking till late, not coming home when he promises he will - generaly taking the piss, as you say.
Its not fun at all and it makes me SO angry. Of course, he complains when I yell at him and can't see that he's done anything wrong at all.