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Should I advise my friend to leave him, or should I keep my trap shut?

(4 Posts)
jawjawnotwarwar Fri 19-Sep-08 17:06:16

An old friend of mine is having problems with her dh and his family. Him and his family are from India. They've been married almost 2 years and cultural difference are putting strain on relationship. He wants kids, she's holding off for a bit, given the current difficulties with his mother, who takes up a vast amount of her dh's time. I'm not against mixed race relationships or anything, just think the signs are bad in this case.

Want to tell her to leave before it's too late.

Should you do that as a friend?

Overmydeadbody Fri 19-Sep-08 17:08:10

um...no?

All relationships have hard times. IF they love each other they ewill get through this.

HeroicHumphreyCutlassCushion Fri 19-Sep-08 17:08:46

Keep your opinions to yourself, unless she directly asks you to comment.

Just be there to support her if she needs you.

Sanctuary Fri 19-Sep-08 17:54:23

Try and keep your views to yourself .If you told her what you thought .You would probarly loose her as a friend.
Whereas if it does`nt work out you can be there for her as a friend should be .

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