Don't know whether I am just bored or exhausted with lifes stresses. Everything is kind of an even keal at the moment job wise but my relationship is doing my head in! My husband is amazing in so many ways (I dont know how he puts up with me most of the time) BUT I am feeling very separated from him at the moment, if I go out socially its ususally on my own with friends and never really with him, because he cant be bothered.We are always broke despite both working really hard and I'm just feeling the strain of living with a depressed man for years now. Part of it is his depression part of it is just HIM. He is very unsociable and I'm the opposite, I strive and work hard for a better life and he 'can't see the point' I have lots of friends and he never bothers with (and has therefore lost) most of his. He says its me that has a problem because he is happy as he is. He has no respect for himself, doesnt care what he wears and is piling weight on yet will not contemplate doing any kind of sport/activity to get fitter. Our daughter is very naughty at times and I just feel like he is useless and too soft, I am the one battling with her all the time. I am fed up with it/him I think and being temnpted elsewhere which I am doing my hardest to resist but its geting harder and harder!! sorry quite rushed as dont get chance much anymore, got to go but would appreciate some support and check it/chat later {smile}
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worry this is fairly typical, but I still need some support because I am feeling the pull.....
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chocolatemummy · 16/09/2008 16:25
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